It allowed my husband and I to understand the behaviour, once you understand the behaviour it is always easier to deal with. Today she is a beautiful 18 year old with a big heart for little kids, especially foster and special needs kids. The crimes are let go, because there is no network to punish the offenders. Not unlike a tantruming child! I agree with what you wrote.
Hitting children undermines their well-being in the long term.
Why You Can’t Discipline the “Angry” Out of Your Child
You May Spank It, Once is an exploitable two-panel image series of a character viewed from behind, usually showing their buttocks. This post is not against spanking. They are more likely to step back from the relationship and build a self-protective shield around themselves in terms of relationships generally. And most often they're useless. Very brave Dana and I applaud you for your honesty.
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My 21 month old son is just like this. Friends Are Similar Deep in the Brain. That sort of evidence doesn't prove anything either way. And to this day they scream and fight each other. Parenting him like my other children was making him worse. Often the anger, once acknowledged in this way dissipates quite quickly. We should be thinking about them on a continuum of violence against children.
Makes me feel a little less alone. I live in an expat community and I have friends from all over the world. One can also use concentric circles with the centre one being the worst thing that could happen to them getting progressively less serious and intense as new circles are drawn around the first. But not being able to find a missing toy may not be up there as a ten or very close tot he centre of thecircle and they can be encouraged to use a fridge magnet to show where the missing toy would be on the 10 point ruler or on a set of circles on the fridge. You ramble a lot about evidence, Richard, but you're pretty selective yourself. Our emotionaly disregulated kids have skill deficits. Guess what it is at home.